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Tim Smith's avatar

I like people with street smarts compared to book smarts, it's a more authentic conversation that I really learn from.

The life we live is the content we create, it's important and it matters.

For example some of my content involves sailing around the world on oil tankers, LNG ships etc.

Cleaning up hazardous waste sites as a heavy equipment operator, working in a scrap metal yard and even burying bodies at a cemetery.

It also involves things like walking on hot coals, the arrow break, walking on broken glass and throw in a couple of 40 day water fasts that I've done.

This is the content I've lived that has meaning and purpose, although so misunderstood as you wrote with talking points following a preselected indoctrinated answer from people that are emotionally not ready to handle a different way of understanding.

Thanks for listening.

Thanks for sharing.

Philip Mollica's avatar

I was just telling my grown son about how words are spells.

How people fashion their words to be purposely vague, and yet imply something that they have not actually said.

They entice you to assume their meaning without saying it implicitly.

I have had to learn to never assume or project meaning from someone's words.

If they are non-specific, confusing or vague, I will tell them I don't understand and to clarify what exactly they are saying.

Some people do it accidentally, but some people use it as a "charm" to imply something they have not stated specifically.

You can always tell the latter because they will become irritated or triggered when you request clarification. It exposes their game.

I know you're talking here about unexamined beliefs, but it kind of goes along with this discussion.

The "common knowledge" argument can be used in the same fashion.

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